Forget Divorce Court -- As More Courts and Attorneys Embrace Mediation, Most Florida Divorces Never Make it to Court

Excerpt : When divorce attorney Howard Iken, The Divorce Center of Tampa Bay speaks with new clients, the first thing they talk about is "going to court." The reality is they will probably never see the


When divorce attorney Howard Iken, The Divorce Center of Tampa Bay speaks with new clients, the first thing they talk about is "going to court." The reality is they will probably never see the inside of a courtroom. The reason -- the overwhelming majority settle at mediation.

Conjure up an image of divorce. The average person visualizes people sitting in a courtroom, giving testimony, with a judge at a bench presiding over everything. The reality of most divorces is dramatically different. Forget high profile, exciting confrontations in courtrooms built 50 years ago. The vast majority of divorces in Florida are relatively

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boring exchanges of paperwork and telephone calls. The extensive paperwork and telephone calls all lead to one event -- mediation. With 95% of cases settling at mediation, going to court is largely becoming something obsolete.

In Florida, and in many states in the U.S., mediation is becoming a mandatory step. And mediation appears to work. Howard Iken, managing partner at The Divorce Center of Tampa Bay, a divorce law practice in the Tampa Bay region, observes over 95% of divorce cases settle by the time they get to mediation. Of the 10% that do not settle by mediation, approximately 9% settle some time before final trial.

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The bottom line is that approximately 1 out of 100 divorce cases go through the colorful confrontation that many people visualize. 99 out of 100 cases never make it to court.

The evidence that mediation works is overwhelming. Mediation programs have sprung up all over Florida. In most if not all Florida Counties, mediation is a mandatory step in all divorce cases. Attorneys seem to embrace mediation. One potent indicator of this is their pricing arrangement. Many attorneys now quote fees that will take each client though mediation. Because of the unsually high settlement rate, that fee normally takes care of the entire case

Between the time a spouse files for

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divorce and the period most cases settle, the legal action consists of very boring paperwork, financial disclosure, punctuated by the occasional phone call. The process rarely varies and the paperwork in each case is similar if not the exact same. One spouse sends a petition, the other sends an answer. Each spouse exchanges financial affidavits, tax returns, paycheck stubs, and other types of documentation. The attorneys act as paperwork mills, churning and spinning out pounds of identical documents into the postal system. Other than copies of documents filed with the court, judges rarely get involved at this stage. All of the documents, legal pleadings, notices, and forms, are

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oriented toward getting to mediation, the final event in many divorces. If the parties settle at mediation, and the statistics show most do, one spouse will never see the inside of a courtroom. The other spouse usually attends a short, 10 minute hearing that is only a formality. A judge reviews the documents and signs off on the divorce.

"Hurry up and then wait," divorce attorney Howard Iken tells his clients. Most cases consist of tons of paperwork creation followed by a long wait. The long wait is normally to allow the opposing party time to create and send a similar pile of paperwork. The routine sets the stage for mediation. The process seems to work. The benefit:

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thousands of dollars in attorney fees are saved. Money that could pay for rebuilt lives is not diverted to the bank accounts of each attorney. Cases are brought to an early end. And each party to the divorce ends up having little or no contact with the court.

About the author:

Howard Iken is the founder and managing attorney. He represents divorce clients in Tampa, Clearwater, St. Petersburg, New Port Richey, Pinellas, Pasco, and Hernando County, Florida. For more information, call his toll free number at 1-888-4My-Divorce (1-888-469-3486). Get a free education on divorce issues by visiting The Divorce Center of Tampa Bay

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